Very incomplete bibliography EMG

Harriet B. Applewhite & Darline G. Levy. Women & Politics in the Age of Democratic Revolution. Ann Arbor: U of Michigan Press, 1993.
Eve Tavor Bannet. The Domestic Revolution: Enlightenment Feminisms and the Novel. Baltimore: Johns Hopkins U P, 2000.
Nina Baym. American Women Writers and the Work of History, 1790-1860. Rutgers, 1995.
Susan Broomhall, Stephanie Tarbin. Women, Identities and Communities in Early Modern Europe. Ashgate, 2008.

Norma Clarke, The rise and fall of the woman of letters. London: Pimlico Random House, 2004.
Leonore Davidoff and Catherine Hall. Family Fortunes: Men and Women of the English Middle Class, 1750-1850, 1987.
Natalie Z Davis. Women on the Margins: Three Seventeenth-Century Lives. 1995.
E.Eger et al. eds. Women, writing and public sphere, 1700–1830. 2001.
E. Eger and L. Peltz, Brilliant women: 18th-century bluestockings. 2008.
Margaret Ezell. Writing Women's Literary History.1993.
Paula Findlen, Wendy Wassyng Roworth, and Catherine M. Sama, eds. “Italy's Eighteenth Century: Gender and Culture in the Age of the Grand Tour.” Stanford UP, 2009.
Folger Collective on Early Women Critics. Women Critics 1660-1820: An Anthology.Bloomington: Indiana UP, 1995.
Susan Foley. Women in France since 1789: The Meaning of Difference. Palgrave McMillan, 2004.
Estelle Freedman. Intimate Matters: A History of Sexuality in America. U of Chicago, 1988.
Catharine Gallagher. Nobody's Story: The Vanishing Acts of Women Writers in the Marketplace, 1670-1820. Berkeley and Los Angeles: U of California P, 1994.

Daniel Juan Gil. "Before Intimacy: Modernity and Emotion in the Early Modern Discourse of Sexuality." ELH 69.4 (2002) 861-887
Ulrike Gleixner and Marion W. Gray. Gender in Transition: Discourse and Practice in German-Speaking Europe, 1750-1830. Ann Arbor: U of Michigan, 2006.
Deena Goodman. The Republic of Letters: A Cultural History of the French Enlightenment. 1994.
----. Becoming a Woman in the Age of Letters. Cornell UP, 2009.
Harriet Guest, Small change: women, learning, patriotism, 1750–1810. U of Chicago P, 2000.
Carla Hesse. The Other Enlightenment: How French Women Became Modern. Princeton UP,
2001.
Vivien Jones. Women in the Eighteenth Century: Constructions of Femininity. New York: Routledge, 1990.
G. Kelly, ed., Bluestocking feminism: writings of the bluestocking circle, 1738–1785, 6 vols.,1999.
Joan Kelly."Did Women Have a Renaissance" in Becoming Visible: Women in European History. 1977.
Linda Kerber. Toward an Intellectual History of Women: Essays. U of North Carolina P, 1994.
Laqueur, Thomas. Making Sex: Body and Gender from the Greeks to Freud. Harvard UP, 1990.
S. H. Myers, The bluestocking circle: women, friendship, and the life of the mind in eighteenth-century England. 1990.
Mary Beth Norton, Liberty’s Daughters: The Revolutionary Experience of American Women, 1750-1800. Boston & Toronto: Little, Brown, 1980.
N. Pohl and B. Schellenberg, eds., Reconsidering the bluestockings, 2003.
Roy Porter. Flesh in the Age of Reason. Norton, 2004.
Roy Porter and M. Teich, eds. Sexual Knowledge, Sexual Science: The History of Attitudes to Sexuality. Cambridge: Cambridge UP, 1994.
Raffaella Sarti. Europe at Home. Yale UP, 2004.
Joan Scott. "Gender: A Useful Category of Historical Analysis." American Historical Review, 1986. 
http://courses.commarts.wisc.edu/955/documents/scott-gender.pdf
Alexandra Shepard. Meanings of Manhood in Early Modern England. Oxford, Oxford U P, 2003.
Robert B. Shoemaker. Gender in English Society, 1650-1850: the Emergence of Separate Spheres? Longman, 1998.
Bonnie Smith. The Gender of History. Harvard UP, 1998.
Hilda Smith. Reason's Disciples: Seventeenth Century English Feminists. U of Illinois Press, 1982.
Theresa Ann Smith. The Emerging Female Citizen: Gender and Enlightenment in Spain. UC Press, 2006.
Rosemary Sweet and Penelope Lane.Women and Urban Life in Eighteenth-Century England: On the Town.  Ashgate, 2003.
Barbara Taylor and Sarah Knott. Women, Gender & Enlightenment.  Palgrave McMillan, 2007.
Janet Todd. The Sign of Angelllica: Women, Writing, and Fiction, 1660-1800.
Cheryl Turner. Living by the Pen: Women Writers in the Eighteenth Century. Routledge, 1992.
Mary Seidman Trouille. Sexual Politics of the Enlightenment: Women Writers Read Rousseau. 1997.
Dror Wahrman. The Making of the Modern Self: Identity and Culture in Early Modern Europe. 2004.
Merry Wiesner. 2nd ed. Women and Gender in Early Modern Europe. Cambridge UP, 2000.

Gerda Lerner is a classic, both on women in history and gender historiography.
Lawrence Stone and Keith Wrightson in argument over family and marriage.
Margaret Jacob, Lynn Hunt.
Anything else depends on particular interests: family, artisans, the salons and philosophers, shop keepers or prostitutes .... geographical scope and discipline - medical, philosophical, historical or literary ...

Journals
Studies in Early Modern Sexuality
Early Modern Women: an Interdisciplinary Journal http://humanities.miami.edu/publications/emwj/

Links to other sources:
http://www.personal.psu.edu/special/C18/women.htm
http://history.rutgers.edu/dmdocuments/Women%20and%20Gender%20Comprehensive%20Reading%20List.pdf